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Why Risky Play Matters

Writer: Grace L
Grace L
Sep 14
3 min read

As adults, our instinct is often to protect children.

To steady them when they wobble.

To lift them when they struggle.

To warn them before they climb too high.

To step in before they fail.

These instincts come from a place of love and care.

But sometimes, in our efforts to keep children safe, we can unintentionally take away opportunities for growth.

At The Little Grove, we believe children need opportunities to encounter manageable risks.

Not because we want them to be unsafe.

But because we want them to learn what they are capable of.


What Is Risky Play?

Risky play is often misunderstood.

It is not reckless play.

It is not dangerous play.

It is not placing children in situations beyond their abilities.

Risky play involves children engaging in experiences that feel exciting, challenging and uncertain while remaining within an environment that is thoughtfully supervised.

Examples might include:

• Climbing a tree

• Balancing on a log

• Jumping from a low height

• Exploring uneven ground

• Carrying large sticks

• Testing physical limits

These experiences invite children to make decisions, assess challenges and build confidence.


Why Children Seek Risk

Watch children in nature and you'll often notice them gravitating towards challenge.

They climb.

They balance.

They jump.

They test.

They try again.

This isn't because children are careless.

It's because challenge helps them learn.

Children are naturally motivated to develop new skills and understand their capabilities.

Risky play provides opportunities to do exactly that.


Building Confidence Through Challenge

Confidence does not come from always succeeding.

Confidence develops when children experience challenge and discover they can overcome it.

A child balancing on a log may wobble.

They may step off.

They may try again.

Eventually, they succeed.

The confidence gained through that experience is genuine because it was earned through effort and persistence.

These moments help children develop:

• Confidence

• Independence

• Persistence

• Problem solving

• Resilience

• Self-awareness


Learning to Assess Risk

One of the greatest benefits of risky play is that it teaches children how to assess risk.

When children have opportunities to navigate manageable challenges, they begin to learn:

How high feels comfortable.

When to slow down.

Where to place their feet.

When to ask for help.

How to make safe decisions.

These skills cannot be learned solely through instruction.

They develop through experience.


What We Notice at Little Grove

Some of the most powerful learning moments occur when children challenge themselves.

We see children carefully testing their balance.

We see them helping one another navigate obstacles.

We see them pause, assess and make decisions.

We see the pride that comes from achieving something they once thought was difficult.

Often, the accomplishment is not the climb itself.

It is the belief that follows:

"I did it."


What the Research Tells Us

Researchers such as Ellen Beate Hansen Sandseter have spent years exploring the value of risky play.

Her work suggests that opportunities for manageable risk support children's confidence, resilience, physical development and ability to assess challenges.

Risk is an important part of learning.

When children are prevented from experiencing all forms of risk, they may miss opportunities to develop the judgement and confidence needed to navigate challenges independently.


Connections to the Early Years Learning Framework

The Early Years Learning Framework recognises the importance of children's agency, wellbeing and confidence as learners.

Through risky play, children develop:

• A strong sense of identity

• Confidence and resilience

• Physical capabilities

• Decision-making skills

• Independence

• Persistence

These outcomes emerge naturally when children are trusted to explore their capabilities in supportive environments.


Trusting Children

At Little Grove, our role is not to eliminate every challenge.

Our role is to create environments where children can safely explore, test and grow.

We observe.

We assess.

We support.

We stay close when needed.

And we trust children to discover what they are capable of.

Because every time a child climbs a little higher, balances a little longer or tries again after falling short, they are learning something important.

Not just about the world around them.

But about themselves.

And that learning stays with them long after their feet return to the ground.


"Risk is not the absence of safety. It is the presence of opportunity."

— The Little Grove Learning Co.

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